Couples frequently come to my practice expressing that they have lost something or that something is missing in their relationship. They complain there is no passion. They share that they are good friends, but want something more in their relationship. A lot of these couples have a sexless relationship (having sexual intimacy less than one time per week) and want to express and feel their love in all realms including the physical.

Passion has to do in part with the energy of the partners and the relationship. If one or both partners are tapped out, and if the relationship is depleted, not for nothing the partners find it difficult to feel passion and maintain a satisfying sexual relationship. Energy is required to have sex!

It behooves these partners to mind their own energy level and quality and nourish the relationship’s. The relationship’s energy is made up of what the partners put into the relationship, in the space between them: time, effort, care, nurturing, kindness, respect, etc.

Each partner’s own energy is very personal and they each need to determine what enhances and depletes it. It is up to each partner to protect, tend, create and manage their own energy. Energy can be generated and enhanced through tailored efforts to meet our specific needs in the areas of sleep and rest, nutrition, hydration, exercise, routine and life style, emotional and spiritual care, support system, and stimulation and fun.

Even small amounts of stress, toxicity, negativity, and drama and indulgence on substances such as drugs, alcohol, sugar, caffeine, and tobacco can have a detrimental effect on the quality and level of our energy and need to be eliminated from our lives.

Couples complaining that something is lost or missing, and about the lack of passion and intimacy, is an indication of depleted personal and relationship energy. The stuff in between us gets lost or damaged as time passes if not safeguarded. The courting, being on our best behavior, having our game face on, putting our best foot forward, and the intensity to be with one another diminish overtime. As the relationship and our lives become more complex, we become overextended and care less for ourselves becoming exhausted if we are not careful. Energies becoming depleted create an empty situation and a passionless relationship (and life!).

When both partners are consistently and appropriately taking care of themselves and putting in quality stuff into their relationship, energy abounds and sparks fly! Partners can reignite or find their passion!

Happy energizing!!

~ Your MetroRelationship™ Assignment

Generate more personal energy! Work on one item from each list at a time. Increase the quantity and/or quality of: Sleep and rest Nutrition Hydration Exercise Routine and life style Emotional and spiritual care Support system Stimulation and fun Eradicate from your life: Stress Toxicity, negativity, and drama Indulgence on substances such as drugs, alcohol, sugar, caffeine, and tobacco

Escorts are more than just a replacement for someone you like. They are professionals in the business of giving pleasure and guarantee a great time even in the saddest moments. You may hire an escort for different reasons like, for a party or to take care of your unsatisfied desires. But, you have to remember that just because an escort is a paid companion, you cannot treat her badly. After all, a sexual encounter can only be heightened when both parties are enjoying themselves.

So, even though you do not have to go out of your way to treat her special, you can keep in mind the following things to increase your chances of becoming her favourite client.

1. Be Punctual

Whenever you are availing escort services, reach for your appointment on time. In case you are held up elsewhere, you should call and let her know the time it might take you to reach. If you need to prepone or postpone your appointment, inform her beforehand and reschedule. Also, coming late means wasting precious time that you could have otherwise spent with your chosen escort.

2. Be a Gentleman

Escorts are classy and expect their clients to treat them the same way. Avoid discussing money when you meet her and never try to negotiate. You already know her hourly rate when you booked her. So, give her the money before the start of the session in the most discreet manner possible. Also, if you are planning to go to a party or event with her, do not make her feel uncomfortable with your sexual overtures. A little kissing here and there, and under-the-table activities are acceptable, but do not embarrass her in front of your friends or guests. Be the perfect gentleman and she will return your gesture in ways that you can only dream about at night.

3. Do Not Force Her

Be respectful and treat her like a lady. Just because you are hiring an escort, it does not give you the right to force yourself on her. Usually, escorts make known their range of services. Whilst some enjoy BDSM, watersports and deep throat depilation, others might not. So, if you have chosen an escort who provides GFE, role-play, cross-dressing and lap dance, do not demand her to entertain your whims of watersports or BDSM. You need to ensure that you have booked the right escort as per your mood and preferences. Most escorts will not be thrilled about providing extra services and they may also refuse to see you ever again.

4. Appreciate Her When You Can

Women love to be appreciated and you must already know that. The same rule applies when you are enjoying the company of an escort. Throw in a few compliments here and there to make her blush and she will be truly yours for the night.

5. Remember to Stay Hygienic

Would you like to engage in fornication with a woman who has not bathed? Or is wearing lingerie that has holed? You will certainly not enjoy that experience. Well, it is the same with escorts. At the end of the day, escorts are women with exceptional taste in men as they serve the needs of discerning gentlemen. When you avail escort services, make sure to have a nice, long shower before meeting her. It will also fetch you brownie points to shave, trim your pubic hair and wear a fresh pair of underwear. First impressions go a long way in deciding if the escort will like to meet you again.

The above-mentioned are some small, but significant points for you to remember when you hire an escort in London. By following these tips, you can make sure that your chosen escort would be thrilled to meet you again. She might even be eagerly waiting for you and give you a little special something the next time so that you remember her.